If someone wants advice on what to tell his/her roommate, friends, or family about being LGBT, how can I help?
Remember that it must be the individual’s decision when and to whom to come out.  Don’t tell the person to do one thing or another; he/she could hold you responsible if it doesn’t go well.  Do listen carefully, reflect back the concerns and feelings you hear expressed, and suggest available resources for support. Help the person think through the possible outcomes of coming out.  Support the person’s decision even if you don’t agree with it, and ask about the outcome of any action taken.
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